It has no effect on your personality in the way these memes seem to think it does. Something about it always rubbed me the wrong way, so I decided to write about it.īeing a top or a bottom has everything to do with penetrative sex and pretty much nothing to do with anything else. In the past year or so, I have started seeing tweets and posts along the lines of “if you see the three little dots when texting someone and you let them go first then you’re a bottom,” or “tops be like: loudly announces presence when they walk into a room.” Things in that vein.